Confident People

I think everyone knows someone who is very confident in their own skin. They do whatever they want, and act like themselves 100% of the time. These people seem to have no insecurities, but once you get to know them, you realize they do. When you are hanging out, just the two of you, those insecurities slip through. They show you the parts of them that no one else can see. This doesn't make you think less of them it makes you admire them more. What an amazing thing to experience! When you can be so comfortable with someone that you know a part of their life that few others do. Truly amazing.

Support

One thing that I have come to realize is a major issue in high school is JEALOUSY. It's such a negative thing, and it hinders us every day. I just don't understand how you can be mean to a person, just because something good is happening to them. Rejoice with them! Celebrate! Don't bring them down! Your time of prosperity will come one day, so let that girl who won basketball MVP be happy! Dance with the guy who got into his choice college. Don't tear them down. You never know what someone is going through.

The Right To Kill What Hasn't Yet Lived

I can hear it. Can you? I hear the whimpering. I can sense the anger. If I listen closely the wind, I can hear the whimpers of the murdered unborn. Do you remember the sprinkling of rain that fell this morning? Perhaps those very raindrops are tears from God falling for his creation that was slaughtered at the hands of its own kind. Why do you think you have the right to make such a decision? I won’t kill you because of my situation, and the way I feel, but as a nation we must stop this unconstitutional murdering of the unborn. As Americans, do we not all have the right to “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness?” (Jefferson, 156). Abortion is an unconstitutional act and should not be legal in the United States of America.

When you have an abortion, you may think that you are making only one choice, to get rid of something that will cause you much pain and distraught, but the truth of the matter is that when you decided to have your fetus killed inside your sacred temple that is given to you by God, you are making many choices. You are making the choice to take away the laughter of a child who is playing with bubbles for the first time. You are taking away the quiet moments where you and your child would sit and watch the stars at night. You are stealing precious memories of experiencing childhood, teenage years, adulthood, and retirement. You are causing someone to go without the spouse they were destined for, and you are erasing the magical story of a wonderful person whom God had created. As Claire Culwell, an abortion survivor, says, “Abortion doesn’t just affect one person, it’s a domino effect.”   Not only are you taking away those memories, your choice is also taking away the choices of that unborn child.

Without even knowing it, you may also be making the choice to cause pain. Let’s look at the story of Claire Culwell. Her thirteen year old mother decided to have an abortion. It was successful, however she was still pregnant. She was actually carrying twins. Because the amniotic fluid (a substance that keeps the baby together and provides it with nutrients) was pierced, Claire was born weighing three pounds, having club feet and dislocated hips. She had to work past these struggles for years, trying to overcome the damage that was done to her. No, the cruelty you put on your child may not be intentional, but the choice you made is very much felt by the fetus. (Yes, at just 6 weeks, the baby has the God given ability to feel.) There are many forms of abortion. (Many of which are extremely painful to the child.) Some of these forms of murder include Intercardiac Injection which causes the baby to have a heart attack, something usually only experienced by a much older generation. Another form is the Saline Solution Method which injects a salted solution into the sac which causes the baby to die from dehydration, internal hemorrhaging, salt poisoning, and convulsions. It all sounds pretty cruel, but I guess it is easier to endure than you having to give birth, right? America has stood for the happiness of all people. ALL PEOPLE. This bringing forth of pain is not something that America was made to tolerate.

The decision to have an abortion not only causes pain to the unborn fetus, but can also have consequences on the person who made the decision to slay their own child. This horrendous procedure could cause your body to become infected because of retained placenta (which is an organ that takes care of the babies needs such as getting rid of waste and receiving nutrients and blood.) This infection can make you so sick that you need to be hospitalized. Abortion can also cause so much damage to your body that you end up needing a hysterectomy which would bring forth the situation of you never being able to conceive again. This choice also causes extreme emotional pain as well. In fact, some states require the mother wanting an abortion to see an ultrasound of her unborn child before letting a doctor kill it. Unless you are not able to feel any emotion, this is obviously going to cause you to feel remorse for the child you decided was not worth your time to take care of or even give up for adoption.

There can also be an emotional toll taken out on you when you learn, because of the abortion, that you cannot conceive again. This could cause your partner to no longer want to be with you, and for you to lose the respect of your friends and family. Yes. You are choosing to cause much pain by choosing death over life. If you look at this statement metaphorically from Henry David Thoreau, you can learn one of the best lessons in dealing with abortion. “That government is best which governs not at all.” (Thoreau, 412). Don’t make the decision to kill what hasn’t yet lived. It’s not your place.

Now, you must realize that having an abortion is taking away the rights of this child. Why not give them back? If we peacefully fight this law, you and your child will be making a better America, a better place for your child to live. That’s what we are protesting for is it not? Take a stand for life. Even if people don’t agree with you because you may be sixteen years old or the child was conceived of an evil act of rape, make the decision to let your baby live a life that is pleasing to God and that inspires others. As Ralph Waldo Emerson says, “is it so bad, then, to be misunderstood? Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood….” (Emerson, 392).

 

 

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Thank you so much for reading! I really appreciate it! I can't wait to read your comments! Look below for my bibliography!

 

Works Cited

"The Fetal Life-Support System: Placenta, Umbilical Cord, & Amniotic Sac." Http://www.americanpregnancy.org/. American Pregnancy Association, July 2007. Web. 25 Nov. 2012. <http://www.americanpregnancy.org/duringpregnancy/fetallifesupportsystem.html>.

Linder, Douglas O. "Right to an Abortion?" Exploring Constitutional Conflicts. Douglas O. Linder, n.d. Web. 25 Nov. 2012. <http://law2.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/conlaw/abortion.htm>.

McMillan, Beverly. "Abortion Facts." Http://www.friendsoftheunborn.org/index.html. Friends of the Unborn, n.d. Web. 25 Nov. 2012. <http://www.friendsoftheunborn.org/html/abortion_facts.html>.

Prentice Hall Literature. Upper Saddle River, New Jersey: Pearson Education, 2002. Print.

A Twin Lives Through an Abortion. Perf. Claire Culwell. Cbn.com. Christian Broadcasting Network, n.d. Web. 25 Nov. 2012. <http://www.cbn.com/media/player/index.aspx?s=/vod/TS17v3_WS>.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My Feelings on "Self Reliance" by Ralph Waldo Emerson

“To be great is to be misunderstood.” (Emerson, 392). How true is this statement, yet how confusing can it be? Many people think that you must conform to society to be thought of as great. That is wrong! “No kernel of nourishing corn can come to him but through his toil bestowed on that plot of ground which is given to him to till.” (Emerson, 391). When you do what God has given you to do, you will truly burst forth with many reapings of good fortune. It’s when you follow the crowd that your true gifts are not used to their full potential. “A man is relieved and gay when he has put his heart into his work and done his best; but what he has said or done otherwise, shall give him no peace.” (Emerson, 391).

                It can be very hard sometimes to not want to be part of the crowd or “popular” kids, but we must remember this. “Envy is ignorance.” (Emerson, 391). Growing up I always hung out with the same group of friends, but when we got into Middle School, my life started to change. It wasn’t that they were mean to me. I just didn’t fit in with them like I did in Elementary school. They were going their ways, and I was starting to go mine. I fought this change with all my might. I would even sit in the gym sometimes, and think of things to say that would make them like me more. Now I know that was foolish. I was becoming my own person, and it was stupid of me to try to be someone I wasn’t. My ideas were changing. My body was changing. My dreams were changing. With all these changes, I had to accept the fact that things weren’t going to stay the same. God had a plan for my life that I couldn’t see at the age of 11. I recently realized something. What was I benefiting from fighting this wonderful blessing when I could be embracing it? I should be enjoying it. I fit in with my best group of friends I have now. I have found my friendship home. I feel safe with them. I don’t have to try to please them. When I’m with them, I’m at my happiest! I’m myself. I’m so blessed, and I’m glad I finally get  see it! So I’ll repeat Emerson with this quote. “Is it so bad to be misunderstood?” (Emerson, 392). Even though not everyone is going to like you, what you do, and what you stand for, it doesn’t mean you have to worry about it. Being who you really are will bring you much more happiness than you can ever imagine. We are made with God’s gentle touch and deep thoughtfulness. Everything about us is perfect in his eyes, so be yourself! What’s the worst that could happen?

What's Happening In My Life: Beginning of School

    Hello webberconnected boys and girls! I wanted to talk to you all about a very important thing that we all go through in our lives… school. Yes, I know. Let the groans begin, but like it or not, it’s a requirement in America, so we all must do our time in the brick building of books and pencil shavings.

    I recently started my sophomore year in high school. I’m not going to lie to you, it’s been way more challenging than I expected. (I should probably be studying right now.) Last year, I was a freshman. In our high school, all the 9^th graders have to be in the 9^th Grade Academy. It was really easy, and I took my classes very lightly. When I came into the actual high school, I assumed it would be just as easy. I was wrong. Sophomore year is so much more challenging. I have so much homework that I don’t know what to do! (I’m so glad it’s Labor Day weekend. I get one extra day to get stuff done and prepare myself for the week ahead.) I am having a hard time adjusting, and I have to work on getting accustomed to my new situation every day.

    On a positive note, I am learning a lot. Just because I am having to adjust doesn’t mean it’s a negative experience. Now to have the chance to tell you all to prepare, prepare, prepare! Create great study habits in middle school and in a 9^th grade academy if you have one. This is imperative for your success in high school. It’s not going to be easy, and you’re going to have to work hard, but it will be worth it in the end. High school can be a really fun part of your life. Do your best in your classes, so you can enjoy all the experiences that will be coming your way! Best of luck! J

RAINBOW NAILS

                                                                              

Hi everyone! I thought I would give you all a super easy tutorial on how to make your nails into a rainbow!!

Here is what you need (and what I used in mine):

1. A Base Coat (O.P.I. Natural Nail Base Coat)

2. White Nail Polish (Avon Nailwear Pro in French Tip White)

3. Pink Nail Polish (Essie's Status Symbol)

4. Red Nail Polish (Avon Nailwear Pro in Tangtastic)

5. Orange Nail Polish (Avon Nailwear Pro in Orange Creamsicle)

6. Yellow Nail Polish (Neon Yellow Piggy Polish)

7. Green Nail Polish (Avon Nailwear Pro in Sweet Mint)

8. Teal Nail Polish (O.P.I. Nail Lacquer in Mermaid's Tears)

9. Blue Nail Polish (Avon Nailwear Pro in Blue Escape)

10. Purple Nail Polish (Nicole by O.P.I. in Play Fair)

11. Black/Silver Nail Polish (China Glaze's Jitterbug)

12. A Top Coat (O.P.I. Top Coat)

Here is what you need to do:

1.Paint all your nails with your base coat and let it dry.

2.Starting with your left pinky, paint it the white color.

3.Paint the rest of your finger nails (left to right) in the order of nailpolish colors above. (The last color on your right pinky should be the black/silver color.)

4.After you have painted all your nails their individual color, exam each nail to see if you need to paint more coats. Act accordingly.

5.Once all of your nails are painted to your liking, wait for them to dry.

6.Once they are dry, paint over each nail with the top coat and let dry.

7.Enjoy your rainbow manicure!! : )

                                                                                                       

Miley Cyrus - A New Beginning

Ever since Miley Cyrus' first episode of the popular Disney Television show, Hannah Montana, premiered, I have been a huge fan. When the sitcom came to its final run as, Hannah Montana Forever, I started to dwindle off the Miley train. Every part of it seemed too thought out and overdone. It wasn't the show I grew up with, and it didn't seem like it was the same Miley either. She started dressing really edgy and making bad choices.
 A year or so has passed, and now I believe Miley is starting to become one of my favorite stars once again. She has been making new fashion and hair choices that everyone seems to be liking, myself included.

Recently, Miley has been seen with her hot Australian beau, Liam Hensworth, at the premiere of, The Hunger Games. Miley wore a black lace crop top with a long beautiful black lace maxi skirt.

If you have been seeing Miley on TV as long as I can you know a staple of her style has always been her long, brunette hair.  Now, her hair is shoulder length and colored in an ombre style. I have to say, it looks stunning on her.

The honey gold color accentuates her beautiful skintone and the length frames her face. I think this look is amazing for Miley!

Another great look look recently seen on Miley was a coral Jenny Packham dress. This look was shown on Fashion Police, and Miley was praised for her outfit choice. The color makes her tan look amazing and really shows off her toned arms. 

From seeing Miley start her television career at the age of 13 to seeing her now at the age of 19, I can say she has grown up,  and I feel like I have grown up with her. : )